Lan Bar Again

Jared and I met at Lan Bar again last night for proMen. "ProMen is an English speaking, gay professional social network for those who are tired of the weekend clubbing scene. They meet every Thursday for happy hour and encourage other activities such as recreational sports, music groups, movie screenings and at-home discussions." We chatted with Chris, a Sociology PhD Student from UC Berkeley, who has been in Beijing for a year doing research. Together, we all went to White Rabbit for a little bit of dancing. The DJ was good, and the crowd had a good energy! It was a good release after sitting in front of a computer screen from 9am to 11pm, with only a short break for lunch.

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