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You're Never Gonna Get Over Your Ex

You're Never Gonna Get Over Your Ex... Over the course of the past 2 months, I have had the unfortunate experience of being "dumped" by 3 different guys, all of whom said (after 5-12 dates) that they weren't over their ex. In each case, I knew a varying amount of information about their exes, and they had been single from 2 months to a year. But this isn't for me to speak in depth about their situations. In each case, I was disappointed to see it end, because these were great guys. I don't make it past a 3rd date with that many people- I'll admit to being rather picky. I'm 35. I know what I'm looking for.  I've been in the shoes of these guys before. I've gotten to the point where I wasn't emotionally ready to take the next step, and I respect the emotional maturity that allowed them to admit that to themselves and then tell me about it. And I've had my fair share of break-ups, after 1 month, 3 months, 2.5 years. I've le...